What should I do with my hair thick and poofy! ?

Im 13 and my hair was relief on Sunday and leave it like that trewout week, until Saturday, when i wash it. I No, I do EWWWW But what can I do? Poofy my hair and my mother told me to constitly in baby oil or coconut oil .. but I never do. I know nothing about hair products that could help me so im clueless like this to .. I NEED HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ALBERTO 1 I bought the mouse to offend my hair style and I thought maybe that will make it less poofy but it wouldnt CURL even a little! I feel terrblie because girls are more in different styles and I suck i need help answer asap LOVE U ALL!

go to the store and buy hair relaxing cream. When you do this, follow the steps. Or if you're not do that, go to the store and thats something we called "pink moisturizing lotion chandeliers. its great. you just have to put on your hair and blow dry or straighten it with the lotion on it. It is a big pink bottle. I suggest going in ethnic stores well. I have ethnic hair. I want to know. Goodluck

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